LoVe & AnXiEtY

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What is Obsessive Love?

Obsessive Love, Love Obsession, Love Addiction, or Relationship Addiction are all common terms when referring to "Obsessive Love."

The experience of insecure love has two main components. One is anxiety. This is the "he loves me, he loves me not" sensation of being kept constantly on edge by a fickle lover. Anxious lovers feel as volatile as the stock market - up one day, down the next. Their passion rages all the more intensely when they are least sure that it is reciprocated.

 

The second component of insecure love is obsession with the loved one.  Love at first sight, longing to see the loved one every day, wanting to go off and live on a deserted island together - these are the signs of romantic obsession. To the obsessed lover, the possibility of rejection feels like the end of the world.  

 

A person who experiences romantic insecurity tends to be both anxious and obsessed.  For such a person, love is a tempestuous experience.

In this painting,  the lady shown is SCREAMING, being too much ANXIOUS about LoVe......

The name of the painting is THE SCREAM, and has a lot of hidden meanings in it, try to catch them.

Not much to say about this image......Self Explanatorry.......

Bade Achhe Lagte Hein.....

Three things are required the most  for any relationship for it's success....

1. Love
2. Compatibility &
3. Trust.

Priya Sharma and Ram Kapoor are on the wrong side of 30 and 40 respectively and romance blooms late in their lives. But if the lead characters of "Bade Achche Lagte Hain" get a new beginning, so does the audience which is finding solutions to real life problems in the unconventional TV love story.

Though there are some loud characters in the show like Priya's mother and some scenes are over the top, Priya-Ram's relationship - and chemistry - is making people sit up and take notice.



And of course, one of the best songs ever....

Bade Acchee lagte hai

Kyaa ????

Yeh Dharti ,yeh nadiyaa, yeh rainaa aur ?

Aur tum

Bade Acchee lagte hai
Yeh Dharti ,yeh nadiyaa, yeh rainaa aur ?
Aur tum mm mmmm


O o O MAjhi re
Jaiyo piya ke desh


Hum tum kitane paas hai
kitane duur hain chaand sitaare

Sach poochho to maan ko jhoothe lagate hain yeh saare

Hum tum kitane paas hai
kitane duur hain chaand sitaare

Sach poochho to maan ko jhoothe lagate hain yeh saare


Magar saccche lagate hai

Yeh Dharti yeh nadiyaa, yeh rainaa aur ?

Aur tum mm mmmmmm

hmmmmm
Tum in sab ko chood ke kaise kal subah jaaogi
Mere saath inhe bhi to tum yaad bahut aaogi

Tum in sab ko chood ke kaise kal subah jaaogi
Mere saath inhe bhi to tum yaad bahut aaogi


Bade Acchee lagte hai
Yeh Dharti ,yeh nadiyaa, yeh rainaa aur ?
Aur tum mm mmmmm


Bade Acchee lagte hai
hmmmm hmmmm hmmm hmmmm hmm
hmm hmm hmmm

Why Love is blind and is always accompanied by Madness.!

A long time ago, before the world was created and humans set foot on it, God had put all the human "qualities" in a separate room. Since all the qualities were bored they decided to play hide & seek.

"Madness" was one of the qualities and he shouted: "I want to count, I want to count!" And since nobody was crazy enough to want to seek "Madness", all the other qualities agreed. So "Madness" leaned against a tree and started to count:

"One, two, three..." As "Madness" counted, the qualities went hiding. "Treason" hid in a pile of garbage.. "Lie " said that it would hide under a stone, but hid at the bottom of the lake. And Madness continued to count "... seventy nine, eighty, eighty one..." By this time, all the qualities were already hidden-except "Love ".

For stupid as "Love " is, he could not decide where to hide.
And this should not surprise us, because we all know how difficult it is to hide "Love".

"Madness": "...ninety five, ninety six, ninety seven..." Just when "Madness" got to one hundred... ..."Love" jumped into a rose bush where he hid.

And Madness turned around and shouted: "I'm coming, I'm coming!" As Madness turned around, "Laziness" was the first to be found, because "Laziness" was too lazy to hide. "Madness" searched madly and found "Lie" at the bottom of the lake. One by one, Madness found them all - except Love. Madness was getting desperate, unable to find Love.

Envious of Love, "Envy" whispered to "Madness ": "You only need to find Love, and Love is hiding in the rose bush."
"Madness" Jumped on the rose bush and he heard loud cry. The thorns in the bush had pierced "Loves" eyes.

Hearing the commotion God came into the room and saw what had happened. He got very angry and cursed "Madness" and said since "Love" has become blind because of u... ..u shall always be with him"

And so it came about that from that day on, Love is blind and is always accompanied by Madness.!